Sex should never be thought of as a chore! If having to do everything you can think of to satisfy your sub (hubby, partner, lover, or whatever) seems like a chore to you, then you are NOT doing it right.
It is extremely easy to make all this attention you have to pay to your guy more fun. After all, if you are not having fun, then why do it? Right?
Okay, so let's see how to make things more interesting on your part. If you are not feeling particularly interested in having any kind of sex when your sub-hubby gets home from work, try doing something fun instead of having intercourse, or whatever you you were going to do. The best part about being a Mistress is that you get to be in charge. So have fun with it. Try doing one or more of the things listed below...
- Make him masturbate for you. Right there in front of you. While you are wearing your comfy clothes. Make fun of him while he does it. “What? Can't get it up? Come on, hurry up. I don't have all night.”
- Better yet, have him stand next to you while you relax watching your favorite TV show. He should be naked and close enough for you to reach his cock and balls. Fondle him. Stroke him. Play with him. Just don't let him cum. See how long he is willing to stand there like that.
- Tell him to go put a plug in his butt and make him sit and watch TV with you. Or better yet, have him go out and get take-out for dinner. But make him be naked while you eat it. Maybe feed him. Don't let him remove the pug until bedtime.
- If he is in chastity, tell him to go watch porn videos on his PC for an hour or two. He can't masturbate. He can't ejaculate. But he CAN get all turned on and feel the pain of his cock as it swells in it's cage.
- Take him out on the back porch naked and throw water balloons at him. So what if the neighbors see? You are having way more fun than they are! Besides, you're not the naked one
If you use your imagination, you can come up with some ways of your own to humiliate your partner and have fun in the process. My research says men want more humiliation in their lives anyway. Why not give it to them?
Men also want more humiliating tasks to perform for their Mistress'. So next time, I will give you some ideas to help you do that as well.